Please be kind to one another....

It is insane how common cyber bullying/bullying has become, whether it be games or social apps. It's really a sad sight to see. It seems to exist everywhere you look. There is nothing to gain by being rude or bullying someone. Please don't go out of your way to be horrible to another. It isn't worth doing and it's not cool. It's not funny.

I hope to see less and less of it in the future. We all have to deal with a difficulties of life and perhaps even the difficulties of dealing with our own thought process, let's not add to it. Be nice to yourself and others.

Ikr someone was so mean to me last year; he called me a troll who faked autism, a brain-damaged sister, etc. :( it hurts

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Ikr someone was so mean to me last year; he called me a troll who faked autism, a brain-damaged sister, etc. :( it hurts

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I am sorry you had to deal with that. I have dealt with various forms of bullying for several years and I know it can really mess with how a person sees themself.

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Originally Posted by LadyWitchCraft

It is insane how common cyber bullying/bullying has become, whether it be games or social apps. It's really a sad sight to see. It seems to exist everywhere you look. There is nothing to gain by being rude or bullying someone. Please don't go out of your way to be horrible to another. It isn't worth doing and it's not cool. It's not funny.

I hope to see less and less of it in the future. We all have to deal with a difficulties of life and perhaps even the difficulties of dealing with our own thought process, let's not add to it. Be nice to yourself and others.

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It really is sad, but there is not much someone can do, honestly it is about our generation being able to educate and teach proper manners and respect to our children when the time comes.

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Originally Posted by LadyWitchCraft

I am sorry you had to deal with that. I have dealt with various forms of bullying for several years and I know it can really mess with how a person sees themself.

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:( I’m sorry that you’ve had to deal with bullying and yeah, it can def mess you up. <\3

Society is fun, isn't it?

good luck stopping it m8s

I'm not gonna lie, I use to do it on graal ALL THE TIME. That's why I have warns now lol. At the time you think it's funny and pointless, but it's not pointless or whatever since some people take others words heavy to their hearts. If only I knew that then.

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Originally Posted by LadyWitchCraft

It is insane how common cyber bullying/bullying has become, whether it be games or social apps. It's really a sad sight to see. It seems to exist everywhere you look. There is nothing to gain by being rude or bullying someone. Please don't go out of your way to be horrible to another. It isn't worth doing and it's not cool. It's not funny.

I hope to see less and less of it in the future. We all have to deal with a difficulties of life and perhaps even the difficulties of dealing with our own thought process, let's not add to it. Be nice to yourself and others.

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It is obvious that it will get worse if nothing is done. Whoever does not punish evil, orders it to be done...

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I'm not gonna lie, I use to do it on graal ALL THE TIME. That's why I have warns now lol. At the time you think it's funny and pointless, but it's not pointless or whatever since some people take others words heavy to their hearts. If only I knew that then.

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When we all come from different paths in life, it’s hard to grasp how a person might be effected by what we say. The reality of it eventually sets in and you end up realizing you can’t undo the damage that was caused.

Great work guys, cyberbullying has dropped to 0%

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Originally Posted by NaniRima

It really is sad, but there is not much someone can do, honestly it is about our generation being able to educate and teach proper manners and respect to our children when the time comes.

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I like to believe there is so much more we can do besides waiting for that. It would be nice to help set a better example for others around to get involved and stop the bullying/cyber bullying. My head may be in the clouds but I’m dreaming of a better future.

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When we all come from different paths in life, it’s hard to grasp how a person might be effected by what we say. The reality of it eventually sets in and you end up realizing you can’t undo the damage that was caused.

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Exactly

Does this thread actually do anything or just confirm what is already known?

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Originally Posted by BlackandWhite

Does this thread actually do anything or just confirm what is already known?

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Let them be, they aren't doing any harm, and wouldn't you be happy if the toxicity around the world would come to an end?

Such a beautiful post with a wonderful message, just remember not to give in to the hate, or entertain them, as they are just trying to drain you of your happiness. Like most said, it’ll be impossible to completely eradicate any sense of evil, but as long as we retain some hope of a better society, then there is nothing to be afraid of <3

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Originally Posted by AliGamer911

Let them be, they aren't doing any harm, and wouldn't you be happy if the toxicity around the world would come to an end?

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Thank you <3

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Such a beautiful post with a wonderful message, just remember not to give in to the hate, or entertain them, as they are just trying to drain you of your happiness. Like most said, it’ll be impossible to completely eradicate any sense of evil, but as long as we retain some hope of a better society, then there is nothing to be afraid of <3

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You are truly wonderful!

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Thank you <3

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Happy to help.

Bullying is when people try to take their frustration down to others. Only the strongest can resist doing this, and not everyone is strong.

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Bullying is when people try to take their frustration down to others. Only the strongest can resist doing this, and not everyone is strong.

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It’s the wrong way to go about life. There are plenty of ways to take frustrations out and one of them is NOT to take it out on people in disrespectful ways.

I hate when people say “Its 2018 who cares anymore” like is that really your state of mind?
Bullying is a big Problem around the world.
I use to bully bully’s who use to bully me in 4th grade, I remember braking crayons putting it in my mouth an throwing it at bully’s who use to bully others and me.

I was never caught, [emoji48][emoji48]


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Originally Posted by BlackandWhite

Does this thread actually do anything or just confirm what is already known?

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The thread is doing absolutely nothing wrong. Leave it be. There's no reason to be rude about it. All it's doing is trying to spread positivity.

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Originally Posted by Zany

The thread is doing absolutely nothing wrong. Leave it be. There's no reason to be rude about it. All it's doing is trying to spread positivity.

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I second this.

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I hate when people say “Its 2018 who cares anymore” like is that really your state of mind?

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It's 2018 and you can't dress as Morgan Freeman for halloween if you are white cause you are culturally appropriating other races, well at least in the minds of some individuals on twitter. So the mindstate of most people is "Its 2018, how dare you offend me?"

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Originally Posted by Yuuto Kikuchi

I hate when people say “Its 2018 who cares anymore” like is that really your state of mind?
Bullying is a big Problem around the world.
I use to bully bully’s who use to bully me in 4th grade, I remember braking crayons putting it in my mouth an throwing it at bully’s who use to bully others and me.

I was never caught, [emoji48][emoji48]


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It's 2018 and you can't dress as Morgan Freeman for halloween if you are white cause you are culturally appropriating other races, well at least in the minds of some individuals on twitter. So the mindstate of most people is "Its 2018, how dare you offend me?"

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Ignore people who use the " It's 2018" format.

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The thread is doing absolutely nothing wrong. Leave it be. There's no reason to be rude about it. All it's doing is trying to spread positivity.

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I m just questioning the pragmatics of this thread. Name me one bully who un- ironically believes that their actions is "funny" or "cool" and name me one person who un- ironically believes that it is good to be horrible to other people (in general).

Of course positivity is always welcomed and please don't equailavte criticism with personal attacks (or being "rude"), you seem to have a habit for that

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Bullying is when people try to take their frustration down to others. Only the strongest can resist doing this, and not everyone is strong.

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Um so bullying victims are simply weak?

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I admit I think this thread is pretty cool, good messages here

It's unfortunate to see but it does happen. With any type of bullying there are people will bully with their friends just for laughs. I've had a group of kids gang up on me and laugh as they bullied because i chose to be more of a tomboy.

I had to deal with a really rough several years and it's something I know no one else has to go through. Nowadays i try to get involved by helping people through what they deal with and just being a supportive person.

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I m just questioning the pragmatics of this thread. Name me one bully who un- ironically believes that their actions is "funny" or "cool" and name me one person who un- ironically believes that it is good to be horrible to other people (in general).

Of course positivity is always welcomed and please don't equailavte criticism with personal attacks (or being "rude"), you seem to have a habit for that

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Your original comment wasn't exactly easy to interpret as good criticism, but I don't want to hold anything above anybody's heads as that'll only make things worse. I do appreciate the fact that you want to question things - because that's not a bad thing (and I apologize if I'm coming off as sarcastic - I'm not being sarcastic at all, although it's hard to interpret things over written word). I apologize if I misinterpret things. It tends to be hard to tell what a tone is, and a person can only go off of what is being said versus what it is directed at, ya know?

But yea, I get you, and by no means meant to cause an issue, genuinely.


Otherwise, I agree with you LadyWitchCraft, and it's very amazing of you to want to be a supportive person despite being treated so harshly. Very noble thing to do.

I've been bullied a long time in school for various reasons, and still am. Have been harassed on Era as well, threatened, had my info leaked/threatened, etc. Sometimes it's not a matter of a person doing it recreationally or just because they think they're cool, as BlackandWhite pointed out and I agree with. Quite often, it tends to be out of spite or just happens because a person got built up to a certain point. I know whenever I've been harassed on Era, it's generally because they're unhappy with things in the game or unhappy that they were dealt consequences for their actions. Although things like this have way too many sources that become complicated to source and therefore, solve the issue, it's great to see the positivty spread here. It takes a lot of patience but the best thing to do in these situations is handle it appropriately for yourself and others.

You guys are good people. Keep on doing what you're doing and keep striving to be the best you you can be.

it's a game. games will have trolls anywhere you look. Trollers don't look at "There is nothing to gain by being rude or bullying someone" and stop trolling. they look at you and see you as an easier target. The more you complain, the more entertainment you give them.

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it's a game. games will have trolls anywhere you look. Trollers don't look at "There is nothing to gain by being rude or bullying someone" and stop trolling. they look at you and see you as an easier target. The more you complain, the more entertainment you give them.

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This post is not just about graal. We are talking about cyber bullying and bullying in general. We are talking social sites, social apps and games. This is not limited to just games. They may find it “entertaining and funny” in the moment but come to realize it will come back to haunt them.

There is a gang that has more than 20k hours and insults people either by the color of their skin, religion, sexuality, country, etc.
That gang is still active and they have not changed:dead:

All gangs talk trash but this is the worst and the one that speaks the most
We usually talk about people but why are there no penalties for gangs??and in extreme cases delete the gang???

A bit of rivalry is fine, but is it necessary to get there?^^^^

Are we supporting these vulgarities or are we against them?

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There is a gang that has more than 20k hours and insults people either by the color of their skin, religion, sexuality, country, etc.
That gang is still active and they have not changed:dead:

All gangs talk trash but this is the worst and the one that speaks the most
We usually talk about people but why are there no penalties for gangs??and in extreme cases delete the gang???

A bit of rivalry is fine, but is it necessary to get there?^^^^

Are we supporting these vulgarities or are we against them?

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That is incredibly horrible. I can only hope that something could be implemented that would punish gangs that would do such a thing. That is clearly going beyond “just a troll” and maybe should be looked into.

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There is a gang that has more than 20k hours and insults people either by the color of their skin, religion, sexuality, country, etc.
That gang is still active and they have not changed:dead:

All gangs talk trash but this is the worst and the one that speaks the most
We usually talk about people but why are there no penalties for gangs??and in extreme cases delete the gang???

A bit of rivalry is fine, but is it necessary to get there?^^^^

Are we supporting these vulgarities or are we against them?

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Well, if you don’t provide proof or even the name of the gang, how Can something be done?

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There is a gang that has more than 20k hours and insults people either by the color of their skin, religion, sexuality, country, etc.
That gang is still active and they have not changed:dead:

All gangs talk trash but this is the worst and the one that speaks the most
We usually talk about people but why are there no penalties for gangs??and in extreme cases delete the gang???

A bit of rivalry is fine, but is it necessary to get there?^^^^

Are we supporting these vulgarities or are we against them?

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It's not the whole gang.. Those are some individuals. Just because 2 people from a gang insulted you does not mean that the whole gang is racist piece of ****. There is no need to delete or penalize a whole gang because of few individuals

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It's not the whole gang.. Those are some individuals. Just because 2 people from a gang insulted you does not mean that the whole gang is racist piece of ****. There is no need to delete or penalize a whole gang because of few individuals

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When you spend more than 4k hours on base you know how gangs work (I have more than 6k hours)
Add a person who stays on base pking for 5-6 hours a day (vacation days) Do you think they will say thanks?
Do you know the insults that there have been towards gangs in wars ???
And you come to me saying that only 2 people insult? Have you ever done base? Have you ever been in a war? Have you ever been pking on base with your friends all the day?
Before there were not as many insults as now. If you do not believe what I say,do this: do pking to the same base more than 4 hours without interruptions

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Well, if you don’t provide proof or even the name of the gang, how Can something be done?

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Nothing can be done because most of the vulgarities are out of graal era, the others in the states of the people (my opinion this should change)

it's obvious to what gang I mean

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When you spend more than 4k hours on base you know how gangs work (I have more than 6k hours)
Add a person who stays on base pking for 5-6 hours a day (vacation days) Do you think they will say thanks?
Do you know the insults that there have been towards gangs in wars ???
And you come to me saying that only 2 people insult? Have you ever done base? Have you ever been in a war? Have you ever been pking on base with your friends all the day?
Before there were not as many insults as now. If you do not believe what I say,do this: do pking to the same base more than 4 hours without interruptions

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I have 3k hours and most of them are in bases, It is normal for people to insult each other when most of them spend 4-5 hours per day on the game. If we were to delete every gang that has a member who insulted someone than there would be no gangs in era. Heck there are people that will insult you for stealing their pizza spot.

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Nothing can be done because most of the vulgarities are out of graal era, the others in the states of the people (my opinion this should change)

it's obvious to what gang I mean

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What do you mean out of era?

The problem of bullying is growing each and every day, I think it can be stopped through disciplinary action of course, Bullying can be just to improve a person status in a way- but being bullied can lead to life-long, negative psychological effect, social coping problems and ect and gaming can have positive benefits like making new friends, socializing, and learning how to strategize and problem solve, it is also another place where cyberbullying occurs.
There are a lot of people that iv played with inside a game lobby that can be cruel to others just cause someone did better then them, Or they did better then the opponent so they name call and harass the player.



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The problem of bullying is growing each and every day, I think it can be stopped through disciplinary action of course, Bullying can be just to improve a person status in a way- but being bullied can lead to life-long, negative psychological effect, social coping problems and ect and gaming can have positive benefits like making new friends, socializing, and learning how to strategize and problem solve, it is also another place where cyberbullying occurs.
There are a lot of people that iv played with inside a game lobby that can be cruel to others just cause someone did better then them, Or they did better then the opponent so they name call and harass the player.



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It won’t get any better, and the one who is bullying probably has not ever had any type of Discipline in Their lifetime if they are bullying others, It’s the parents responsibility to discipline them they made the child they handle all the stuff that comes with it.


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Originally Posted by Yuuto Kikuchi

The problem of bullying is growing each and every day, I think it can be stopped through disciplinary action of course, Bullying can be just to improve a person status in a way- but being bullied can lead to life-long, negative psychological effect, social coping problems and ect and gaming can have positive benefits like making new friends, socializing, and learning how to strategize and problem solve, it is also another place where cyberbullying occurs.
There are a lot of people that iv played with inside a game lobby that can be cruel to others just cause someone did better then them, Or they did better then the opponent so they name call and harass the player.



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Definitely it’s an issue and sad that gets worse.


I hope that people take the time to read this thread and
the comments. I think the community can come together and really make a difference. No one is alone when it comes to being bullied and no one should ever feel like they are. There’s always going to be someone who will be there and listen when you need someone to talk to. I will gladly be there for someone if someone needs to talk.

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Add a person who stays on base pking for 5-6 hours a day (vacation days) Do you think they will say thanks?

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What are you even trying to say?

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Do you know the insults that there have been towards gangs in wars ???

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How is this relevant?

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Wow great way to scarecrow iHit’s argument. Nowhere does he say only 2 people in whole of graal make insults. He is only pointing out that a whole gang shouldn’t be penalised for 2 members who insult. You’re going to have to try a bit harder to dodge his argument.

(And honestly I have to agree with iHit, it would be dangerous if crimes committed by a few becomes generalised to a whole population)

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And you come to me saying that only 2 people insult? Have you ever done base? Have you ever been in a war? Have you ever been pking on base with your friends all the day?

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What a convoluted mess

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If you do not believe what I say,

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iHit makes no suggestion that he does not believe people make insults

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it's obvious to what gang I mean

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Well isn't that pragmatic