Gateway To Hell?

[Tricky]

So i'm confused.
What do you believe in?

(Holy **** that first link is scary. Tbh the second is too, kinda.)

I believe we should live life.
As long as the ten commandments aren't broken, and you accept that there is a God and he helps you through life, then you should be fine.
I don't like church because people are too attached. (Ex. holding hands, repeating phrases to each other, praying.)

I just like to be my single self, and think there is a God at my side. Like, why is it so bad to not go to church?
Can't I love God without church?

Tbh. I'm athiest.
But I believe in the paranormal, and from what they say, to believe in the paranormal you need to believe in hell and heaven. Dangers and graces.
So I'm just pissed. Where do I go lol