First off, "shut up and deal with it" does not translate to "stop complaining and do something about it" and even if it did, who are you to tell people what to do? Every single goddamn day I get to find at least one unhelpful, negative, immature, and usually unintelligible post from you and it gets old. There's nothing I can do about it, but some change would really be appreciated.
As for Kamiroo, everyone has their defining trait, you just haven't found yours yet. Try to find something you enjoy doing and get good at it, even if nobody else acknowledges you for it, you're not useless. You listed several traits that your family members have, they all seem to have different talents, perhaps you just haven't found yours quite yet. Fitting in depends on who you're trying to fit in with, in reality, fitting in to meet the expectations of others doesn't mean a damn thing, do your own thing, make other people want to fit in with you. I'm a 20 year old with a job that takes up most of my day and classes that take up my evening, these two things limit my social interaction so a lot of the people I wish I could hang out with don't usually see me because I'm never available until late night. Some of the best people I've met are in-game and here on the forums, those are the people that I fit in with, and I wouldn't trade that for the world. What you become and who you fit in with is all up to you, just don't give up and don't try to fit the standard that others want you to fit, just be yourself. I hope this post helped a little bit and just know that nearly everyone on the forums is here for you, the evidence is in most of the above posts. If you're ever feeling down, you've got the support of the community.
