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    Am I friend zoned?

    Before you read this long long thread, I ask you to not read or reply unless you're mature and actually have dating experience and I know this is probably a bad forum to ask it on but I wasn't sure where else to go, anyways here we go.


    So on this game I play I met this girl through a close friend we'll call her Ash. Ash is about 5 months or so older than me and she knows that. At first we didn't really talk but it's been about a week now since we met and we talk a lot. We mainly talk about the games we play and sometimes talk about our lives. Anyways Recently we were playing a game and a random topic of pron came up and some stuff similar to it and we laughed a lot and it wasn't awkward at all (it was only us two talking). Anyways tonight we were talking about she's going to some church camp on Monday that she didn't want to go to and she randomly was like "BUT THERES GOING TO BE THIS WATERPARK TYPE THING THERE BUT IM ON MY PERIOD" well English is her second language so it wasn't that neat so I had to make sure she meant she was currently on her period and she said yes that's it's her third day of her current period (obviously not her first period) and we strangely talked about periods and the fact that she uses pads instead of tampons and we just generally joked around about that kind of thing for a solid two and a half hours. And it wasn't awkward at all it was actually very funny. Anyways here's some side notes, she's Demi (I believe that's what it's called when you don't develop feelings for someone until you know them for a while). She often adds extra letters to words like for example one day I told her I couldn't play at the moment because I wasn't home and she responded exactly like this "aww wyddd" another example a lot of times instead of saying "LOL" she'll add multiple O's or multiple L's, and I actually told her goodnight a few minutes before making this and she replied "gnnn". But anyways there's more words than those that she adds extra letters to. You may be wondering why make such a thread like this at a place like this? Because I've never met someone like her she's beautiful, I just connect to her and we have a lot in common like we've both had something very bad happen to us, we're both shy and antisocial, we both love video games, and more. I really want to be more than a friend but if not it's fine but I simply want to know if I've already been friend zoned or if I still have a chance. I'm not going to straight up ask her because that just might ruin our friendship. If you need anymore info I'll try my best to supply you with what you need, if it helps me out. But one last time please don't comment on here unless you've actually dated someone and you're mature, this girl is all I can think about.


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    This is great, keep it up, but if you're into her, I'd say drop hints to know you're interested in her. There's no sign of friend zone, but genuine friendship, which is absolutely perfect.

    Give me compliments. She sends a picture of herself, say she looks pretty. She says something about her day, elaborate.

    Don't think you're in the friend zone because she's comfortable with you. Just continue talking and all. Ask to facetime with her. More calls. Send her hints!

    Flirt with her. Make her laugh. If she returns the flirt and signs, that means she's into you. Don't assume, however, and ask her out. Just be patient and confess your feelings.

    Also.. Don't say "I'm in love with you", because love is a very strong word.

    I wish you the best!

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    Try to get all her social media to keep up with her.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kendrick View Post
    This is great, keep it up, but if you're into her, I'd say drop hints to know you're interested in her. There's no sign of friend zone, but genuine friendship, which is absolutely perfect.

    Give me compliments. She sends a picture of herself, say she looks pretty. She says something about her day, elaborate.

    Don't think you're in the friend zone because she's comfortable with you. Just continue talking and all. Ask to facetime with her. More calls. Send her hints!

    Flirt with her. Make her laugh. If she returns the flirt and signs, that means she's into you. Don't assume, however, and ask her out. Just be patient and confess your feelings.

    Also.. Don't say "I'm in love with you", because love is a very strong word.

    I wish you the best!

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    Try to get all her social media to keep up with her.
    This ^ is my answer as well.

    You aren't "Friend Zoned".
    Just be yourself, she's liking it for sure. But I'll warn you now, don't rush it...
    Ask me anything and ill try my best to answer

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    give her your acc and shes forever yours.


    or


    get a IP stealing program, steal her IP, go to her house, ask out, = profit

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    Am I friend zoned?

    Quote Originally Posted by Kendrick View Post
    This is great, keep it up, but if you're into her, I'd say drop hints to know you're interested in her. There's no sign of friend zone, but genuine friendship, which is absolutely perfect.

    Give me compliments. She sends a picture of herself, say she looks pretty. She says something about her day, elaborate.

    Don't think you're in the friend zone because she's comfortable with you. Just continue talking and all. Ask to facetime with her. More calls. Send her hints!

    Flirt with her. Make her laugh. If she returns the flirt and signs, that means she's into you. Don't assume, however, and ask her out. Just be patient and confess your feelings.

    Also.. Don't say "I'm in love with you", because love is a very strong word.

    I wish you the best!

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    Try to get all her social media to keep up with her.
    Thank you for the advice. What would be a good way to drop signs that I have feelings for her?

    Also she would call herself ugly but I kept telling her that she's beautiful and now she doesn't call herself ugly anymore so I'm not sure if that's some kind of sign that she's maybe more secure or maybe she doesn't like it when I call her beautiful so she doesn't say it anymore, women are so hard to understand

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    Quote Originally Posted by Frozenshadow View Post
    Thank you for the advice. What would be a good way to drop signs that I have feelings for her?

    Also she would call herself ugly but I kept telling her that she's beautiful and now she doesn't call herself ugly anymore so I'm not sure if that's some kind of sign that she's maybe more secure or maybe she doesn't like it when I call her beautiful so she doesn't say it anymore, women are so hard to understand

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    Haha, no, that's not a sign.
    Hmm... Okay, now this I'm not quite sure.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Frozenshadow View Post
    Before you read this long long thread, I ask you to not read or reply unless you're mature and actually have dating experience
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    Ah so my services aren't required.


    Although From what I've read, there are no dead certain signs that she sees you as just a friend.
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    the friendzone isn't real

    tell her that you are interested in her, better her denying you straight up then having repressed feelings for her forever
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    Quote Originally Posted by Bulletzone View Post
    Ah so my services aren't required.


    Although From what I've read, there are no dead certain signs that she sees you as just a friend.
    I don't have dating experiences, shh.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kendrick View Post
    I don't have dating experiences, shh.
    You still gave great advice!


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