In a game where we kill eachother words hurt more than the bullets

Cry me a river this isn't politically correct era

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Quote Originally Posted by LYK08 View Post
Yes I agree with your take on this and I thank your effort for raising this up.

However, you have failed to consider the fact that the current administration is one which majority of the players do not have a faith in. The fact that they refuse help to players who has had their accounts revoked for no apparent reason despite concealing this refusing in "toonslab support" only goes to show they lack accountability.

I do not want to discourage you, and in fact I have some ideas we could use to incentivise good behaviour. But all these are only possible if the administration can prove itself to be an accountable one - if they themselves cannot even provide clear justifications to the unjust banning of players, why trust that they would implement any of these ideas to better the community?

The fact that the community is in such a pitiful plight only goes to show the efforts of the administration. Maybe the upper echelons are there to deceive or keep the current admins in the dark about all these sudden removal of player accounts , which explains little objection to what the management did, but the fact that these have yet to be accounted for only deepens my belief that this administration will not go far in making the community a better place.

And permabans are just part of the story. No one has to this day offered sound explanation as to why Kirzey and Anero have been permabanned despite their contributions to the game. As someone who believes in meritocracy I believe their work in the game does not in any way warrant such treatment.

That said, its not that I don't take what you've said seriously, but untill the administration proves itself to be taken seriously, don't expect much of any ideas this thread is going to generate to materialise. you're just doing a mob appeal.

But anyway, since you're so keen on getting this solved, I shall offer you some explanations based on research why they behave like that. Hopefully it'll help you think of an idea, but whether or not the administration accepts it is another story.

1. Thinking cyber name calling/swearing etc is okay
Players think its okay because they are used to doing so to their friends (real life/in graal) in the form of self-endearment. Its basically banter that both parties understand and accept (which goes to explain why some are not reported when they do so in game, and therefore go unpunished). Since they go unpunished/their friends accept, they develop this into a habit based upon the assumption that everyone whom they interact with will accept, so they think its okay.

2. Cyberbullying/harassment/ breaking the rules/ being toxic
part 1:
Accept the fact that its a virtual world and every one is concealed behind a screen, their avatars no reflective of their personal self. No personal ego/reputation is at stake (that is, if I offend the world in era, no one will no me irl) so there is no incentive for them to behave properly. If my identity is hidden, even if I harass someone, no one is going to shame me irl, nor will anyone know about it irl so why would I care? Because of a lack of inclination to values and proper conduct in the virtual world since they take on another identity, they tend to behave differently from their usual self. Trust me, most of the people who swear at you in game won't dare to do it irl.

Part 2: since its everyone takes on a new identity, there is no difference in irl status/age. A kid can swear at an adult in game through the avatar, but won't do it irl because they are anonymous, which boosts their audacity to do such things. A kid who has been constantly disciplined to do the right thing irl will find him or herself with freedom in the game, and so will attempt to do whatever they don't get to do irl. (just like how you'd go on a food frenzy if you have been deprived of food for days).

Hope it helps.
If this was reddit i would make multiple accounts just to upvote this

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Quote Originally Posted by Joeyaudi1 View Post
I couldn't have proven it better, I strongly agree that the community is awful, though I have a hard time figuring out how to make everyone open-minded.
Are you still a PR? you have so much hatred for the community..

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Quote Originally Posted by RayBaggins View Post
Oh man toxicity is great. Not really. So far after the 3k+ hours and time span of 8 years that I've been playing graal, these past 3 years have been the worst 3 years I've played on graal because of toxicity. Usually I could walk around and actually have conversations with people about certain things like ingame content. Now I find these people who act as if they dont need people talking to them and decide to just start flipping on anyone who tries to for the fun of it.
Also I used to get PMs from people asking how to do certain things ingame and I'd answer them and get a nice thank you and if I didnt know it they would be like darn, or something and move on to the next person. Nowadays when I answer help PMs they just start complaining about how I told them the tip or just reply with "k" and go quiet. Not really toxic just annoying in general since I just took the time to reply to your pm and all you have to say is "k". Then i get these ones who are vulgar to me because i ignored their pm while i was afk. It aggravates me too much sometimes. Though I still get those gems that I can talk to without any toxic stuff coming from them.
Anyhow no more ranting. I would love to see something be done about toxicity.
I do agree that the administration is one of the issues for it.
Most staff I've talked to are nice, but there are ones that hide behind a "mask" they put on after getting the staff role they applied for. That "mask" doesnt completely cover what they are hiding though.
What you're describing isn't toxicity, rudeness maybe.. You're not entitled to anything for helping people out the sooner u understand that the more enjoyment you'll get out of the game

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Here is what a toxic player REALLY is:
1. Someone complaining on teamates, over things his teamates cant do anything about, making it unnesecary flaming.
2.Someone who is constantly griefing, damaging, or missusing chat.
3.A player who can never take the blame on himself and so lashes out negatively to others.
4. An abusive player.